Sunday, July 5, 2020

how do guys feel about primarily pink weddings?

Lyndon Mattas: I think that sounds good but here's another option to consider - you can rent just the vest and tie to match your groomsmen. Our ring bearer already had a tux but the vest and tie were black and we wanted silver so we just rented the vest and tie.

August Hubbard: Does anybody know what it's called and where it is.

Virgil Loatman: I have no problem with a pink wedding-- as long as he doesn't. A wedding is a celebration of the life and personalities of both people involved, and even if you've been dreaming up your perfect wedding since kindergarten, it's not fair to exclude the groom. You should definitely discuss your dreams with your man.That being said, guys are not usually super excited about the whole wedding planning thing. You might not have any problem whatsoever with him :) But I would recommend giving him some part of the planning to take care of-- the music, the food, or another aspect he might have fun with. I put my husband in c! harge of planning the honeymoon, and he did a great job!...Show more

Kenneth Thuesen: that sounds really pretty, and perfect, it's your wedding and as long as they match it's fine, my aunt had a killer wedding, it was amazing, but she had 3 ring bears, 3 flower girls, our dresses matched the bridesmaids (i was a flower girl) but the ring bears wore black dress pants and purple shirts only (the colors) and she could afford the suits but she said it was more creative that way

Timmy Bustard: first I don't know why you are clothing all these people! you must be rich. also the idea of using 2 reds seems weird to me but that's not your question. yes slacks, shirt, and tie is fine for the ring bearer. no reason to buy him an entire suit he's just going to outgrow.

Maurice Breuning: I think the slacks, shirt, and tie idea is just fine. Little boys don't care about dressing up in tuxedos anyway, and they'll be just as cute without the tuxes. It's really gener! ous of you to pay for everything for your wedding party!

Coleman Petropoulos: Having 4 or more is really too many. I would draw the line at 3.

Carmelina Enoch: most guys don't much care about the colors their brides choose. the manliest of men have been known to walk the aisle in scotish kilts, pink shirts, or sporting lavender or purple ties without blinking an eyelash. if pink is your dream, go for it. he won't care.

Barton Sease: Go with your dream besides guys don't normally sweat the details. You both will more than likely not even notice if something is not up to your expectations since you will be too busy taking photos, greeting guests and TRYING to have a good time yourselves. You both will truly take in the fullness of the night at your honeymoon and when you look at the photos.

Stormy Beliard: Hi. NO, the ring bearers do not have to be in tuxes. And, yes, I do agree about the insurance to cover damages. I have seen ring bearers (unknowing to the parents, etc.) play in a big dirt pile, play in w! ater puddles, etc. all with the tux on!I would go with: black pants, white shirt and burgundy tie (or a burgundy/black combination tie.) I would NOT, however, also pin a boutonniere on them. I absolutely hate the look of a boutonniere pinned on a plain white shirt. It really looks ridiculous. If you have any type of discount store where you live....go there! Go to Walmart, KMart, Target, (even JCPenney), etc. Yes, you should be able to buy a pair of pants, a shirt, and a tie for $50. Great idea!Good luck!...Show more

Malcom Fenoff: We are already registered at Bed, Bath, and Beyond and Walmart and Sears. Would it be too much to also register at Target? I'm not sure about registry etiquette and all, but I know that I would like to register at Target, I'm just not sure if this is too much!

Curtis Josef: I don't know the name of the place, but there's a good chance it's listed on http://www.gatheringguide.com/vis_ven_lst.aspx?srv... if you want to scan thro! ugh and see if it's there.

Rivka Killmer: My ring bearer is my so! n and i also check for rental tux and it was also $120 people. I checked buying one and it was $85 dollars and that was also too expensive for something my son would never wear again so i checked on ebay and got his tuxedo for $24 dollars. This is the tux i bought http://cgi.ebay.com/NEW-FORMAL-RING-BEARER-BOY-5-P...He looks absolutely adorable and it was alot cheaper than $50 dollars. You should try that. good luck...Show more

Kaley Lappas: This didn't show up the first time so lets try this again - - - I am paying for attire for the wedding party and I just don't want to spend $120 per kid to RENT a tuxedo and have to buy insurance (more money) in case they damage it.My colors are black, white & red.My bridesmaids are in cranberry-red; my flowergirls have burgundy & white dresess; the groomsmen are in black tuxes with red vests & ties that match the bridesmaids dresses.Do you think it would look weird to have the two ringbearers wear black slacks & button-down shirt! with a burgundy tie to match the flowergirls?OR maybe black slacks, white shirt & burgundy tie?I figured out I could BUY slacks, shirt & tie at a department store on sale for about $50 or less per kid.Or must the ringbearers be in the expensive tuxedos???...Show more

Dan Seen: You just have to ask him!Maybe he won't care at all about the pink (maybe he secretly finds it flattering to his skin tone). Or maybe he has some ideas about what colors he likes.There's no rule about men and weddings except that it's their day, too, and they should get to be as involved as they want.At the end of the day, what's more important, having the wedding you've imagined as a child or having the groom of your dreams? The first one you can compromise on. The second you never can....Show more

Conrad Puleio: I don't think its wrong to assume he knows a pink wedding is coming.. My sister in law LOVES pink and what she did for her wedding was bright pink and black.. it turned out real! ly cute she had all the men in black and the girls in back with pink sa! shes. they all had hot pink daisy's. The table cloth was white with hot pink ribbon around each table, and to be honest it really wasn't over "girly" or over done with to much pink like you would have seen in a bad 80's movie.. Pink is your fav color so i say go with it but then add something he would like to even pink, lime green and black works there are so many ways to dress down the color pink i wouldn't worry about it just say you ready for a pink pepto bismal wedding.. jokingly and then say im kidding but i do want a pink wedding what do you think our accent color should be? that way, you get your pink wedding and he feels included...Show more

Adan Alipio: if you are talking about California, then here are a few locations:1) Ana Del Wedding Site2) Compass Rose Garden3) Healdsburg Country Gardens WeddingsIf you are talking about Australia, then here are a few locations:1)Mount Lofty Botanic Garden2) Hahndorf Old Mill3) The Carlton Club...Show more

Stephnie! Patout: One seems like enough.

Donnell Mollo: I just had my second Bridal shower last Sunday.I registered at BBB and Sears but my grandmother made me register at Jcpenny for the convince for everyone. Target is a horrible place for brides to register. There return policy sucks. It has to be returned with in 14 days with receipt if you don't have it, your shitt out of luck.

Adan Stribble: I think it depends on how many showers you are having. If I were you I wouldn't put more than two MAYBE three of the places on the same invitation. Really, unless there's a reason like one family doesn't have access to a store or something I would think there should only be two or three registries. One for china and fancy stuff one for other stuff. Why would you need Walmart, Target and BBB? How are you going to decide what to register for where... many things you can probably get at two if not all three of the stores.

Tana Dumoulin: I doubt he'd mind if your bridesm! aids wore pink, or if there were some pink flowers. But pink everything! will probably put him off. Weddings are kind of girlie by nature, but there's a line between being classy and prissy. Save prissy for the bridal shower! One thing you can do is choose a shade of pink that's not too Barbie. For example, pair dusty pink and mauve for your purple. Or have purple as your leading color, with vibrant accents of fuchsia and pale pink. Or go with more of a coral pink instead. Coral as a color looks good on everyone. Or you could nudge your pink over into the red spectrum. Red is a fun, bold color for weddings! Pink-red-purple is a color scheme with a lot of possibilities....Show more

Vince Delarge: I can't speak for a guy, but I would find an all pink wedding a bit cloying. There are ways to incorporate pink into your wedding without it looking like a bubble gum factory exploded.

Marcia Cheathan: I think it's fine to dress the boys in slacks and a shirt.However, I think the two different color reds will clash. Have you already bought t! hose? If not, try to stick to one color...it will look a lot more pulled together.When I got married (7/7/07) the tux place wanted $120 for the ringbearer tux!! That's crazy. So I found a place that sold pretty evening gowns and accessories (I forget what it's called) and they had tuxes. I bought my nephew a tux for $35.There are a few websites you can order one from if you know their sizes. Just make sure to check the return policy!Here are some pictures of the tux I got for my nephewhttp://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30020483&l=a...http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30147218&l=3......Show more

Pasquale Pollet: I think that Wal-Mart AND Target is too much and repetitive. Wal-Mart isn't that much cheaper than Target that you need both.

Sharee Doak: the wedding theme should reflect both the bride and groom. you could add a dark color like chocolate or black along with the pink, I've seen those colors used together an it looks great. use pink as an accent ! color, not the main color, because otherwise your reception will look l! ike a 6 year old girls' bedroom.

Brice Greczkowski: I don't like them. I wouldn't even say it's too feminine, it's too girly. Fine for a girl's birthday party, not fine for an adult wedding. Not to mention, how does the groom feel about this? He might not care about colours, but I'm sure he doesn't want pink on top of pink.

Anton Waln: Forget the all pink wedding. Add some other colors into it. You don't want your guests or man to think that your wedding was an 'ode to pepto bismal.'

Madlyn Fallis: Well, I agree that four registries is too much, just wanted to make sure. I have one at BBB and Walmart because some of the stuff I want at BBB is cheaper at Walmart but Walmart doesn't have everything we want to register for. The one at Sears was just a bit of an after thought because they have better quality electronics cheaper than at Walmart. And I hear that Target is known for a really bad return policy, is that true?

Inez Relihan: I think 2 or 3 reg! istries are enough. More than that and you may come off as greedy. Also, my fiance' and I went to Target to register and asked about their return policy. They said that in order to return an item, we could only return things 2 separate times and the total transaction has to be under $35 and they would only give us store credit. UNLESS you have a receipt, then they will take the return and give you store credit. But seriously, are you really gunna ask people where they bought your present from, then proceed to request a receipt to return it? I don't think so. I would advise to NOT register at Target....Show more

Kip Ockenfels: I say two is good, otherwise it's a little overboard.

Ruthe Real: D4 - I am far from rich, but my wedding party are all but 1 from out of state and will have to pay for hotel rooms for at least 2 nights in order to be in my wedding and my fiance & I wanted help take some of the expense off of them for being in our wedding.Since some are sin! gle & others have families with 2 or 3 people in the wedding we decided! to "be fair" or most equitable in the process of helping with their expenses we would purchase their attire....Show more

Chanda Wittwer: petaluma california or australia?

Terresa Tsasie: 1 is anough cause if you have alout then you can loose track of the money and they can still like 50cents a day which isnt a lot but it adds up

Connie Dickirson: It is yours and his wedding so who cares what we think, or anyone else for that matter. Please try to bear in mind however that this is your dream, for your big day, but it is his big day as well so stay open minded to his suggestions. Congrats to you both!

Bailey Lares: I think your suggestion would be fine. Or you could try purchasing tuxedos. I did that for my ringbearer. We found a tuxedo for him to buy that was like $20 and it looked great. He wore it with his little black Chuck Taylors. It was SO cute.

Lizzette Wendroth: The wedding day IS primarily about the bride, yes. But it is a day that is ! celebrating you both as a couple. I would definitely say ask his opinion and then make adjustments as necessary. Also, take into account the shade of pink. Pink can be overwhelming and it might not be a bad idea to make it an accent color vs a primary color. But there are ways to make your wedding colorful and fun and not tacky.I definitely suggest checking out offbeatbride.comCongratulations and Good luck! :)...Show more

Russell Mckinzie: Yeah, 4 is way too many. In fact, 3 is pushing it too. You should really have 2, at the very most.

Leann Villalta: I'd say 2 would be the limit for me... if you're having 200 or more guest...3 registries would be classy...you want to be able to give your guest a variety & to consider everyone's budget. Everyone may not be able to afford they crystal; but a toaster from Walmart may be feasible...you also want to leave the door open for monetary gifts as well. Try not to get too carried away;registrying because the monetary! gifts will come in handy for your honeymoon :) Congrats.

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